Monday, January 20, 2014

Kindred spirits - the art and virtue of communion


“The deepest of level of communication is not communication, but communion.
It is wordless ... beyond speech ... beyond concept.”
Thomas Merton

Seeking the Last Light


Communion. I’ve always loved this word…not because of its religious connotation but because of its derivation and primary meaning as “the sharing or exchanging of intimate thoughts and feelings, esp. when the exchange is on a mental or spiritual level.” Wiktionary.com explains the etymology of the word as “from Old French comunion, from Latin commūniō (“communion”), from cum (“with”) + mūnus (“gift”). Used as a noun to mean, “a joining together of minds or spirits.” We’ve probably all used the verb form “to commune” in reference to our being outside trying to stay in touch with nature. So it makes perfect sense that a hero should need such a virtue to complete his/her sacred quest – for what good is the first part of the journey to self-awareness, coming to that deep knowing of self, if we never know how to share that gift of self with another. That is the whole point of the second half of the quest.

Communion, says Sam Keen, is the medicine that cures us of the feeling that we are alone in our struggles or that if people knew us deeply, they would not like us. Loneliness is one of the worst “dis-eases” of contemporary society because we are so caught up with getting, spending, entertaining ourselves that we “inevitably feel alienated when we do not live within a circle of friends, within the arms of the family, within the conversation of a community.” That “communion” is more and more difficult to achieve it seems. As I mentioned yesterday, the internet, social media like Facebook and Twitter, allows us to pretend to intimacy we may not feel. Our instincts tell us that friendships take time but we are so hungry for connection, we may ignore our own caution lights. Families are scattered, fractured and often dysfunctional so not enough of us find our communion there. [For those who do, get down on your knees or raise a cheer of gratitude…you are blessed]. Work and family obligations may keep us from finding or creating communities in which we can have those lasting, bonding, revealing conversations.

Perhaps that’s why we blog. And very likely it is why as artists and writers, we seek out others engaged in the same creative arts and rather than just post and run, we join “groups” and get involved in the “community” aspect of the internet sites to which we belong.

Paul Martin, author of The Teacher’s View blog (http://plmartinwrite.blogspot.com), expresses the deep connection – the communion - between the artist/writer and the viewer/reader this way, “…art requires three things: the artist, the object, and the viewer. It is only through the communion of these three that the art is fully realized.” He goes on to say that “Writers write to be read and anyone who would say otherwise is a liar.” That reminded me of the little Samuel Johnson quote on my Nook reader cover – “A writer only begins a book – a reader finishes it.”  Unread poems, unread stories  are dead poems and dead stories and the paper on which they are written might as well be burned up in a conflagration like Fahrenheit 451. But, in truth, I think exactly the same thing is true of visual arts. Each of us only begins the art work we present – it is incomplete and virtually meaningless unless someone sees it and responds to it in some kind of dialectical communion of minds and hearts. Through my art and writing, I am asking to be known, accepted and liked…and cherished. I’ve shared myself – left myself vulnerable to rejection, attack or condemnation as much as to praise. I’ve offered the only gift that is truly mine to offer – myself – and I’m asking you…the reader or the viewer of my poems or paintings, to welcome me in to a communion of the minds and perhaps hearts too.

Art or writing may be, as I said in an earlier post, a solitary endeavor in the doing. But without communion, the art is meaningless and the sacred quest is too lonely to be borne.


References:



Keen, Sam. (1992, April). Fire in the Belly: On Being a Man. Bantam Books, New York, NY.

Martin, Paul. (2012) The Teacher's View. [Blogpost] http://plmartinwrite.blogspot.com

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